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How did you meet Cyrille H.?
Anne-Marie. In March 2016, he was an exhibitor on a flea market. He sold miniature cars. I was looking for an R8 in memory for my father. We got to know each other and that’s it.
Have you had doubts at first?
He hid his game well. Then I discovered that he was very sexually demanding and later that he was drinking. Often the bottle of whiskey did not spend the day. Then, I also noticed that he was harassing his ex, he sent them sms in front of me.
So then?
Our daughter was born in May 2017 and he left the house in March 2021. I understood that he had a Breton friend who was more than a friend … There was the divorce procedure, I stayed in the house. He was staying with his mother’s in Saint-Michel. My daughter went there every 15 days and when she was coming back, she was disturbed, did not want to go there anymore. She had very sexualized behaviors, coarse words: “Dirty whore, asshole”. At 4 years old, she put her hands where it was not necessary. Then she told me that in the bathtub, he made Guilis … There, I made the link.
What did you do?
I reported the facts to the gendarmerie and the educator who followed us in the context of an educational action in an open environment. I also filed a complaint because he harassed me. It was about 70 messages a day, he threatened me to take away the little one.
And your daughter is not the only victim …
I learned since the procedure that he violated his four children, his sister, the cousin of an ex … In front of me, he boasted a little of the rape that his father had made. He told me that he had attended there, that his mother was present and that she never did anything. I had tried to speak to her mother during our marriage, Cyrille alcohol problems in particular, but she always protected him …
Was alcohol omnipresent in his life?
Yes… he had even had his license withdrawn in 2018 withdrawn but he did not care. I saw it a sober or two day, it had nothing to do with it. When he was alcoholic, for example, he was yelling at the rippers who came to pick up the trash cans, when it was his old job …
How is your daughter today?
Better still, but it is always disrupted. She suffered expertise, the last one month ago. She goes to the medico-psychological center (CMP), it helps her.
How did you experience the revelation of these facts in our columns?
It feels good that it is spread out in the public square, that people know and that the procedure is advancing.
